Things Ladies Should Stop Doing If They Don’t Have Plans For A Guy


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The truth is painful but must be spoken nonetheless. I’ve heard some complaints from some friends plus some of my past experiences. Ladies, if you don’t have plans for a guy stop the following:

1. Stop calling him “sweet names” like dearie, sweetheart, honey, love etc.
We know you’re a “lovie duvie” but biko, control it enh…don’t give him false hope. Let friends be friends NOT lovers. Unless you want to switch over, then you open up.

2. Stop visiting him on skimpy clothes and buttoned shirts, especially when you’re ‘courageous’.
You visit a guy whose ear GL has filled with topics like ‘How ladies behave when they want to get laid”. If you don’t have plans for him, quit sending those signals. Remember: To every sequence, there is a consequence.

3. Stop getting jealous when you see him with other girls
You don’t want to marry him, yet you get jealous when he’s making headway, relationship-wise. You’re not his mother, biko. Friends sef have limits.

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4. Stop discussing your past relationships with him- it’s not his business.
This thing you are saying is communicating something different to his mind. You want to talk with someone, you have besties right? False hope everywhere! Now, what do you want him to do? Leave his girl and come solve your relationship problems?

5. Stop visiting him at odd or questionable hours
This is one major way smart and decent girls nicely wipe the thought away from the mind of numerous suitors. If you don’t want intimacy, don’t visit him at all sef. Not like all guys are like that, but MOST girls are like that. A girl visits you and choose to be a good boy, then she hates you. The next point expatiate more…

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6. Don’t suggest sleeping in his house or vice versa because something might happen.
This offers a protective measure. Don’t get me wrong: if there’s an understanding, it’s okay. More often than not, in a corrupt world of ours, no one can be trusted in a cold bed. You can trust him but can you trust his “down there”. If you don’t want “harassment”, avoid stuff like this.

7. Don’t “miss” him.
Ever woke up in the morning and you see a text message in your phone by “just a friend’ saying ‘I miss you’. That stirs up questions as much as it does hormones. It’s risky.


8. Stop ‘breasting’ him
You don’t have plans for him and you’ll be staining his white clean shirt with your b**bs. C’mon! That’s unfair! Some will just come with their coconut and rest on your body as if your skin cells are dead and gone. Let’s change in 2016.

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Abeg enh, let’s know the ladies that are still single and available. Don’t colour-blind us.If you are in love, show it and don’t act funny when we reciprocate. Relationship leads to marriage when both parties are honest to themselves.Its childish and evil to start acting innocent after you have caused him to sin at heart. I honestly believe, a few guys won’t easily swallow this bitter pill as they’ll seek ways to avenge.

You can share your experiences too.

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